Quality of Life in Lagos, Nigeria

So which city is cheaper to live in Lagos or Lekki? What is the crime rate in those cities?

A young women said she inherited land in Lagos in 2017 she said she had to pay the taxes on that land that was given to her by her Late Father. She said she had to pay for Attorney so she could get the deeds to her land. 5 years later she tells me she got nothing for the land that all money was spent on ATTORNEY fees and not sure if taxes on land was ever paid. She said the lands value was 25 million NAIRA and she got nothing after 5 years of living in Lagos, I find that hard to believe that she didnt get to keep her INHERITANCE ( can someone tell me if this is true or fake ? She constantly asks me to help her I gave her $80 US DOLLARS 10 days ago she said that's what it cost for a coverage on one month cell phone she says she hardly eats food I want to believe her but I find doubt in our conversations

Would it be better for me to save money and move there or for him to move to America from Lagos Nigeria